Easy Way to Happiness

I have been asked by many people “How to forget someone you still really like”, and normally the question relates to the ex whom they still have a clear picture of in their mind, or the person who they’ve started dating (or are dating) who pretty much has just dumped them for any reason (someone else, things not working out, and the worst of all: just gone missing without a trace – AWOL).

This article outlines simple steps on how to forget someone you still really like whatever your situation is. It doesn’t matter whether you are the dumper or the dumpee because generally both parties will feel hurt to some extent when a relationship doesn’t work out.

Here are some steps you can do:

1. Cry out everything you can cry out. It is normal and good to cry. You don’t even have to feel embarassed because as long as you do it behind closed doors, no one will know.

2. Fill up your life with some activity. Sometimes the best thing to do when you try to forget someone is to get really busy.

3. Ask for some good friends’ company. It is time to give them a call and catch up after all.

4. Practice the ‘No Contact’ rule. Avoid him like a plaque because your heart can’t exactly handle it right now. And no, you cannot be friends.

5. Go out and meet new people and faces after the initial 24 hours. Being at home beyond the first 24 hours of mourning is just going to prolong the hurt. This way you will be able to realise that there are REALLY plenty of fish in the sea.

6. Try to avoid watching too many romantic soapy movies especially on Saturday nights when you normally watch it with him. Watch something like “Borat” with your friends instead.

7. Be aware that no matter how hurt you are, hygiene is still very important so do not forget shower.

8. Give it time. Time is the ultimate how to forget someone you still really like. Time will heal anything if only given the chance.